And it dawned upon me...

“Right when you think you don’t need love is the time when you need it the most” … -(Bryan Adams, a little love)
Somehow this line fits the very situation ….
Anyway … what I actually had to say was that I finally realized the difference between “LIKE” and “LOVE”..!!!
“LIKE” is … All the immature infatuations & “obsessions” and when all you do is look out for his favorites and try to make them “your” favorites … without even knowing them and then when that image is flushed – coz you realize that they are not what you thought they really are… you are left alone …”heartbroken” … - and then you curse the person for “entering your life” … and feel betrayed … etc.
But what we never realized is that they never promised us anything …. They never asked us to like them or think of them differently or simply “feel” it for them …!! They were probably themselves all along in their own “life” - living it – with their friends – and what we always overlook is that it might be that our heart “longs” for them but that Brain all along says that “ something is wrong here “..;)
All this never happens in “LOVE” …
When you know the person .. When you feel it for them not because they are "happening" .. or they are all those things that you want them to be.. but because they are themselves....
Because now the heart and the brain direct to that 1 person ... Because everything feels right when you are with them ..and then you realize that everything that you want in "your guy" ... They already HAVE IT ...!!
because now you really don't care if they love you .. all you care about is if they are really happy :)
I know we all want love to be reciprocated but it is never the same .. It is never a fairytale for everyone.!!!
But it could be if you want it to be .. !!
When we LOVE some1 .. REALLY LOVE .. . we stop believing in the quote "LOVE IS BLIND" ...
Coz "true love is not blind .. But sees all the faults and does not mind" .... :)
IT's not the question of since when ? ... it's the question of ...
is this forever ??
Is this the person that would promise me forever ? .. coz i might say that its okay "kissing" in the first week of relationship and it's okay to do it before marriage ... etc
but the TRUTH is I never can do this to myself .. I can never givin until I believe that except that 1 person there is going to be no 1 else..
Now I realise what it meant when some1 said to me . "if not for that person am not gonna get married at all" ..
That same love can never happen again ...
I was talking about "kiss" ... that kiss takes the relationship to another level... - its not a bad thing to kiss - No, it surely is not .. - but it is a part of a relationship not the base of it ... "The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender..because this kiss already has within it that surrender." -Emil Ludwig
How amazingly has he described it all in 1 sentence... And I really believe this .. I might be "modern" but am still respectful of the "first touch"..
I know it's almost impossible to be some1's first and last in today's world.. but if not his first atleast his last ... :)
Gonna end it with my recent favorite ...

" Kabhi-Kabhi mere dil mein khayaal aata hai
ki jaise tu mujhe chahegi umar bhar yunhi
uthegi meri taraf pyaar Ki nazar yunhi
mai jaanta hun ki tu gair hai magar yunhi
mai jaanta hun ki tu gair hai magar yunhi
kabhi kabhi mere dil mein khayaal aata hai.. "


HAPPY VALENTINO .. ♥
WITH MUCH LOVE -
-SABURI PANDIT :)

THE 'V' WeEK .. ..♥

We all try defining "LOVE" ....in our own way ...the way we feel it.. the way we want it.....and the way we get it ..

just yesterday i read this - and i found it extremely cute ^_^

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday"...- Noelle, Age 7 (participant in a survey of 4-8 year old's asked to define love )..

Even a 7yr old kid defined love.. and when you get 17 its too damn difficult defining LOVE ... duh !!

As February comes by ...everyone wants someone to be by their side ...to make them feel special ..as its the Valentine month. But is it just 1day or 1month ... or about that 1 hr you spend with them .. ?? Isn't it about lifetime ....that Forever feeling ... that's unquestionable... and undefined.. !!

LOVE .. LOVE .. LOVE ... ♥

LOVE - It means EVERYTHING to me ... I am nothing without LOVE... it completes me .. it makes me ..i accept LOVE in any form .. i believe in LOVE no matter what ...I trust love .. cause the very foundation of my relationships is LOVE ... it is not just valentine's day for me .. it's my life ... its the reason of my being ..its the reason i get through all the ups and the downs ( in particular) ... :)

Don't get me wrong i am in no way against Valentine's day .. no no .. it's undoubtedly .. 1 of the most romantic days ..But only if we promise to make it a special something not just for 1 month .. let every day be valentine's day ♥

This Valentine's ... Some of must be with the one we really love and would never let go of them .. some of us would be with the one who really love us and would never let go of us ... while the lucky ones would be SINGLE ..... and the REALLY LUCKY one's would be with the one's they would never let go of and who in turn would never let them go ...!!

But no matter what .. i really wish ... not just the month of February .. the whole year is filled with LOVE .. as we make our sweethearts feel special THIS month ..... may that love STAY ... & spread all through the year :)

TC =]

:)

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♥ BLISS ♥

When its just me and you
When its all true
When you hold my hand and make no big deal of it
When you want to show that you care and end up
saying nothing more than "take care"
When you simply smile while looking at me,
for no good reason at all
When its raining outside ,and all you want is me
When you care no more ,about what people say
When you shout at me ,for doing something insane
When you hold me to stop me from crying
When you kiss me to say "good night"
When you whisper slightly in my ear "I ♥ U "
When you shout to the world outside
how lucky you feel when I'm with you
When you want to make it up to me
for no fault of your own
When you want me to be right next to you :)
It's BLISS
It's complete BLISS
WHEN I'M WITH YOU !! :)