And it dawned upon me...

“Right when you think you don’t need love is the time when you need it the most” … -(Bryan Adams, a little love)
Somehow this line fits the very situation ….
Anyway … what I actually had to say was that I finally realized the difference between “LIKE” and “LOVE”..!!!
“LIKE” is … All the immature infatuations & “obsessions” and when all you do is look out for his favorites and try to make them “your” favorites … without even knowing them and then when that image is flushed – coz you realize that they are not what you thought they really are… you are left alone …”heartbroken” … - and then you curse the person for “entering your life” … and feel betrayed … etc.
But what we never realized is that they never promised us anything …. They never asked us to like them or think of them differently or simply “feel” it for them …!! They were probably themselves all along in their own “life” - living it – with their friends – and what we always overlook is that it might be that our heart “longs” for them but that Brain all along says that “ something is wrong here “..;)
All this never happens in “LOVE” …
When you know the person .. When you feel it for them not because they are "happening" .. or they are all those things that you want them to be.. but because they are themselves....
Because now the heart and the brain direct to that 1 person ... Because everything feels right when you are with them ..and then you realize that everything that you want in "your guy" ... They already HAVE IT ...!!
because now you really don't care if they love you .. all you care about is if they are really happy :)
I know we all want love to be reciprocated but it is never the same .. It is never a fairytale for everyone.!!!
But it could be if you want it to be .. !!
When we LOVE some1 .. REALLY LOVE .. . we stop believing in the quote "LOVE IS BLIND" ...
Coz "true love is not blind .. But sees all the faults and does not mind" .... :)
IT's not the question of since when ? ... it's the question of ...
is this forever ??
Is this the person that would promise me forever ? .. coz i might say that its okay "kissing" in the first week of relationship and it's okay to do it before marriage ... etc
but the TRUTH is I never can do this to myself .. I can never givin until I believe that except that 1 person there is going to be no 1 else..
Now I realise what it meant when some1 said to me . "if not for that person am not gonna get married at all" ..
That same love can never happen again ...
I was talking about "kiss" ... that kiss takes the relationship to another level... - its not a bad thing to kiss - No, it surely is not .. - but it is a part of a relationship not the base of it ... "The decision to kiss for the first time is the most crucial in any love story. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender..because this kiss already has within it that surrender." -Emil Ludwig
How amazingly has he described it all in 1 sentence... And I really believe this .. I might be "modern" but am still respectful of the "first touch"..
I know it's almost impossible to be some1's first and last in today's world.. but if not his first atleast his last ... :)
Gonna end it with my recent favorite ...

" Kabhi-Kabhi mere dil mein khayaal aata hai
ki jaise tu mujhe chahegi umar bhar yunhi
uthegi meri taraf pyaar Ki nazar yunhi
mai jaanta hun ki tu gair hai magar yunhi
mai jaanta hun ki tu gair hai magar yunhi
kabhi kabhi mere dil mein khayaal aata hai.. "


HAPPY VALENTINO .. ♥
WITH MUCH LOVE -
-SABURI PANDIT :)